What's Pissing you off now?

[rascalraidex]

The amount of Silva-nuthuggers on here! DAMN! lol


I honestly laugh at how quickly people get offended when their "hero" is criticized. Seriously, even when I look through unbiased eyes I see Silva as a horrible example of a champion! Not saying Sonnen is any better (Personality wise, that stuff about offending other people kinda screwed him) but atleast Sonnen fights ANYBODY ANYTIME and doesn't back out of fights. Seriously, Anderson has ran away from Sonnen for TOO long. Even after Silva WON the first fight, he still ran away how can people like the guy! I can understand liking his fights and liking his highlight reels, but NOT his personality!

LOL... Anybody, anytime my ass... I guarantee if a HW called him out he would fumble his way through an excuse....

Also, how can you love Sonnen with his reprehensible personality and hat Silva because of his? This sir, does not make any sense...

Not offended that you don't like Silva... offended that you don't like logic..

[MMAPunkBillCarson]

Last night, my fiance and I got into an argument which resulted in her sister picking her up. because she doesn't like when I smoke Mad Hatter due to the fact that after I get off my high, I fall asleep which means I don't end up spending time with her. I don't really smoke all that much, maybe 2 times a week. However, it's perfectly ok to run to her fucking sister's every day to watch her sister's kids just because her sister don't want to load her kids up in the fucking car like a normal mother and take them shopping and places. She normally goes over there about 9 in the morning, before I go to work at 11. I get off work around 4-5 (I prep food for a restaurant) and she still isn't there. This is on a consistent basis. Last Friday, I wanted her home around 5 so I could spend time with her. Guess what? This time, she didn't get home till around 11!

I honestly do not see where I'm wrong here. I don't make her work. The only thing she has to do is wash my shirt and jeans for work. Am I being unreasonable, or is she?

Honestly, this shit is getting unbearable but at the same time, 3 years sounds like a bit to throw away just over this.

[rascalraidex]

Last night, my fiance and I got into an argument which resulted in her sister picking her up. because she doesn't like when I smoke Mad Hatter due to the fact that after I get off my high, I fall asleep which means I don't end up spending time with her. I don't really smoke all that much, maybe 2 times a week. However, it's perfectly ok to run to her fucking sister's every day to watch her sister's kids just because her sister don't want to load her kids up in the fucking car like a normal mother and take them shopping and places. She normally goes over there about 9 in the morning, before I go to work at 11. I get off work around 4-5 (I prep food for a restaurant) and she still isn't there. This is on a consistent basis. Last Friday, I wanted her home around 5 so I could spend time with her. Guess what? This time, she didn't get home till around 11!

I honestly do not see where I'm wrong here. I don't make her work. The only thing she has to do is wash my shirt and jeans for work. Am I being unreasonable, or is she?

Honestly, this shit is getting unbearable but at the same time, 3 years sounds like a bit to throw away just over this.

My new phrase has become 'Bitches be naggin n shit...' Yesterday I was trying to fix this built in bookshelf we have. She had just 'cleaned' it (a.k.a. straightened the stuff on it). So I am taking things off of one shelf and putting them on another so I can take the first shelf off and put in a brace for it to sit on. Anyway.. she starts nagging me and I am like, 'I have to clear this off so I can fix it...' I get done with that shelf and start moving stuff from the one above it so I can do the same thing... again, she starts nagging me... WTF? I SERIOUSLY JUST EXPLAINED WHY I WAS MOVING SHIT! The only thing I could chalk it up to was 'Bitches be naggin...'

[timbercutter]

Last night, my fiance and I got into an argument which resulted in her sister picking her up. because she doesn't like when I smoke Mad Hatter due to the fact that after I get off my high, I fall asleep which means I don't end up spending time with her. I don't really smoke all that much, maybe 2 times a week. However, it's perfectly ok to run to her fucking sister's every day to watch her sister's kids just because her sister don't want to load her kids up in the fucking car like a normal mother and take them shopping and places. She normally goes over there about 9 in the morning, before I go to work at 11. I get off work around 4-5 (I prep food for a restaurant) and she still isn't there. This is on a consistent basis. Last Friday, I wanted her home around 5 so I could spend time with her. Guess what? This time, she didn't get home till around 11!

I honestly do not see where I'm wrong here. I don't make her work. The only thing she has to do is wash my shirt and jeans for work. Am I being unreasonable, or is she?

Honestly, this shit is getting unbearable but at the same time, 3 years sounds like a bit to throw away just over this.

My new phrase has become 'Bitches be naggin n shit...' Yesterday I was trying to fix this built in bookshelf we have. She had just 'cleaned' it (a.k.a. straightened the stuff on it). So I am taking things off of one shelf and putting them on another so I can take the first shelf off and put in a brace for it to sit on. Anyway.. she starts nagging me and I am like, 'I have to clear this off so I can fix it...' I get done with that shelf and start moving stuff from the one above it so I can do the same thing... again, she starts nagging me... WTF? I SERIOUSLY JUST EXPLAINED WHY I WAS MOVING SHIT! The only thing I could chalk it up to was 'Bitches be naggin...'

chicks can be a serious pain in the ass....I'm glad I have an "ex- wife".....down with being single ...fuckin chicks at will and I never have them come over to my place...last time I did that she wouldn't leave for 3 weeks!

[rattlestick]

Last Friday, I wanted her home around 5 so I could spend time with her. Guess what? This time, she didn't get home till around 11!

did she say she would be home at 5?

I honestly do not see where I'm wrong here. I don't make her work. The only thing she has to do is wash my shirt and jeans for work. Am I being unreasonable, or is she?

Honestly, this shit is getting unbearable but at the same time, 3 years sounds like a bit to throw away just over this.

Dude have you tried talking to her in a way that you make her feel like she's part of the decision making?

Something like "babe, you know i like to smoke dat heefer but at the same time i know it bothers you. What would you suggest that we do... perhaps we can find a solution that'll make us both happy?" you could suggest that you'd smoke on certain days preferably when she's not around etc. I think if you make her feel like she's part of the decision making she'll more readily accept the solution, as she will be part of it. It'll make her feel good that you're making an effort to be more considerate.

As for her spending a lot of time at her sisters you could use the same technique... but be positive say something like "I miss you around the house.. it seems like you often come back home really late. Maybe you could work something out with your sister so that we can spend more time together, even for just a couple of evenings a week? I'd like to spend more time with you" etc

Just tell her what you feel bro.

[MMAPunkBillCarson]

Last Friday, I wanted her home around 5 so I could spend time with her. Guess what? This time, she didn't get home till around 11!

did she say she would be home at 5?

I honestly do not see where I'm wrong here. I don't make her work. The only thing she has to do is wash my shirt and jeans for work. Am I being unreasonable, or is she?

Honestly, this shit is getting unbearable but at the same time, 3 years sounds like a bit to throw away just over this.

Dude have you tried talking to her in a way that you make her feel like she's part of the decision making?

Something like "babe, you know i like to smoke dat heefer but at the same time i know it bothers you. What would you suggest that we do... perhaps we can find a solution that'll make us both happy?" you could suggest that you'd smoke on certain days preferably when she's not around etc. I think if you make her feel like she's part of the decision making she'll more readily accept the solution, as she will be part of it. It'll make her feel good that you're making an effort to be more considerate.

As for her spending a lot of time at her sisters you could use the same technique... but be positive say something like "I miss you around the house.. it seems like you often come back home really late. Maybe you could work something out with your sister so that we can spend more time together, even for just a couple of evenings a week? I'd like to spend more time with you" etc

Just tell her what you feel bro.

She did say she would be home at Five. And really, the only time I smoke Mad Hatter is when my brother gets off work when he works late. So I normally take a few hits before she gets home (she's hardly ever around when I do it) and I get off my high about an hour or a half after she gets home. She does have a say in our decisions. But I honestly feel like with me working and wanting something to take the edge off, I should have that. Because the way I look at it, if she was really so aimed at me spending time with her, she'd go to her sister's less and spend time with me. She can't just pick and choose when it becomes convenient to spend time with me and bitch because it's not convenient for her at that time.

[beachboysob]

Ive been with my girl for 3 years and i can feel where your coming from Bill. That running to her sisters stuff would piss me off to no end.

Well i guess alot of what you said would get on my nerves. Frankly if whats shes doing bothers you, and she knows it bothers you, then there is a problem. You need to take a stand and accept no bull shit.

There are things you can deal with and things you cannot. The line must be clear.

Nobody is perfect and you cant expect that out of her or yourself. Dude was right bitches do be naggin, but that does not mean they can run to thier sisters when shit gets real.

[ButtersStotch]

Chael Sonnen's FightWiki page says that he tested positive for steroids after his fight with Silva. Not true. and it pisses me off.

[rascalraidex]

Chael Sonnen's FightWiki page says that he tested positive for steroids after his fight with Silva. Not true. and it pisses me off.

Testosterone is just one of many anabolic steroids. He did test positive for steroids.

[ButtersStotch]

Chael Sonnen's FightWiki page says that he tested positive for steroids after his fight with Silva. Not true. and it pisses me off.

Testosterone is just one of many anabolic steroids. He did test positive for steroids.

He had high testosterone in which he informed the commission he was taking but their rules about it are so vague that it turned out he didn't inform them in the exactly correct way they thought they wanted.

[TheAssassin]

Chael Sonnen's FightWiki page says that he tested positive for steroids after his fight with Silva. Not true. and it pisses me off.

Testosterone is just one of many anabolic steroids. He did test positive for steroids.

this is wrong but i dont feel like telling you why

[KeyboardPacifist]

I honestly do not see where I'm wrong here.

...... 3 years sounds like a bit to throw away just over this.

Dude have you tried talking to her in a way that you make her feel like she's part of the decision making?

Something like "babe, you know i like to smoke dat heefer but at the same time i know it bothers you. What would you suggest that we do... perhaps we can find a solution that'll make us both happy?"

you could suggest that you'd smoke on certain days preferably when she's not around etc. I think if you make her feel like she's part of the decision making she'll more readily accept the solution, as she will be part of it. It'll make her feel good that you're making an effort to be more considerate.

Just tell her what you feel bro.

This is very solid advice. (so long as the "tell her what you feel" doesn't come from resentment or anger)

It sounds like you got a woman who doesn't want to feel controlled or dismissed. She is looking for connection and she finds it with her sister and the kids. When she wants to connect with you - you are connecting with your brother with "mad hatter" and not her. Interesting how similar the inconvenience is.

You can't tell her what to do - but you can make it clear that you also want a connection.

Ive been with my girl for 3 years and i can feel where your coming from Bill.

The line must be clear.

Nobody is perfect and you cant expect that out of her or yourself.

...., but that does not mean they can run to thier sisters when shit gets real.

Also solid.

From age 15 to 27 - I had a bunch of relationships that only went 3 years.. i used to joke and say that 36 months was the death sentence. I've now got 5 years with my wife & it does gets easier.



ps. ... Yo. Don't listen to timber. in matters other than legal counsel (or tree sawing ?) Nuff said.

[MuayCrim]

From age 15 to 27 - I had a bunch of relationships that only went 3 years.. i used to joke and say that 36 months was the death sentence. I've now got 5 years with my wife & it does gets easier.

Only 3 years?!

My longest relationship before my wife lasted 2 months

[DARC87]

Just found out the ex wife has a new boyfriend. First one since our divorce was final. But I took it suprisingly well. The old me probably would've went a little crazy but I just sent her a text and wished her luck.








Fucking slut

[DannyRocktown]

Just found out the ex wife has a new boyfriend. First one since our divorce was final. But I took it suprisingly well. The old me probably would've went a little crazy but I just sent her a text and wished her luck.








Fucking slut

DARC, What a slarf. Glad you handled it like a man. I think we've all flown off the handle in a jealousy situation and anytime you look back at it, it's quite embarrassing. It's better to be civil and treat it the way you did and I assure that you are a better man because of it.

Sometimes you have to slay a few dragons to get to the princess.

Rattlestick, props on the advice, homie. I can see you've been to the depths of hell as well. Anyone who's been there has a much better grasp on humanity.

Bill, hang in there and def listen to Rattle. Solution are best created when the 2 parties involved make it together.